Maestral wrote: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2024 3:08 pm
A neighbour of mine calls for me, from his backyard, to ask me something...
- Do you know who's throwing cigarette fags in my backyard?
= And you're asking me that because I'm smoking cigarettes?
- Well, I don't know who's doing this...
= ... so you find it to be normal to ask me if I did it?
- Well, I asked it nicely.
= Oh! So, if I pick some foul words, form some disgusting sentence AND if I sing it to you - you'd find it to be normal and polite?
...
= Thank you for this unpleasant but awakening experience. I believe we finally, after all these years, genuinely introduced ourselves to each other.
Sorry, I don't completely get what you mean by your story. However, in term of my question, as I mentioned, I don't know coding. Sometimes if we put ourselves in someone's shoes, we can feel their feeling. I don't think asking question for safety should cause any troubles.
